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Beautiful Karwar – This Is The Posting I Was Afraid Of

When I boarded the train from Mumbai to Karwar, I carried more hesitation than luggage.

Mumbai had been my professional world, fast, loud, efficient, and familiar. I was coming from the accounting head office there, a place where the pace of work matched the relentless rhythm of the city itself. Files moved quickly, conversations happened in multiple languages at once, and the city seemed to function on a constant forward motion.

Karwar, on the other hand, was an unknown chapter waiting to begin.

As the train wound its way along the Konkan coast, passing through tunnels, lush hills and sudden glimpses of the Arabian Sea, the beauty outside the window was undeniable. And yet somewhere inside me there was a quiet resistance.

Could I really adjust to this place?

The language sounded unfamiliar. The town felt small after the endless movement of Mumbai. In a big city, it is easy to disappear into the crowd. In a small place like Karwar, people notice you. They observe you. They slowly form opinions about you. And the quietness, the solitude of being away from family, the pain of leaving a big city with big brands and adjust to a small town with no instant delivery apps, the fear of getting lost in an unfamiliar environment is another thing that overwhelms.

Those first few weeks felt like standing at the edge of unfamiliar water, unsure whether to step in, not knowing then that the sea itself would eventually teach me how to swim.

Ironically, it was the sea that helped me settle here.

Karwar’s beaches are very different from the crowded shores of big cities. The sea here feels calm, almost reflective. The idea that the ocean was always nearby, that I could simply go to the beach whenever I wanted, felt like a quiet privilege.

Perhaps that is the quiet magic of a place like Karwar. It does not overwhelm you all at once. Instead, it slowly finds its way into your everyday life, through small routines, familiar faces, and unexpected moments of calm. Before you realise it, something about the place begins to matter to you more than you had ever intended. Somewhere during my stay, I discovered a love for swimming that I had never quite explored before. Learning swimming was so relaxing it felt almost like meditation. The pool was welcoming and when it was closed for maintenance it gave me pangs of longing which made me realized early on how much I had started loving it.

Of course, the reality of office life had its own demands.

Our office often functions under staff shortages, which means the workload can be intense. Files move quickly, responsibilities pile up, and many days become unexpectedly hectic. So although the beach was always there, those peaceful swims remained rare — small, stolen moments rather than a daily indulgence.

Perhaps that is why they became even more precious.

The office itself had its own journey with me.

When I first joined, I sensed a certain hesitation from some of my subordinates. It was not hostility, but a cautious distance. Later I understood the reason. Many of them had earlier worked with officers who had not always supported them when it mattered.

Trust, therefore, had to grow slowly.

Over time, as we worked together through routine challenges and long days, something shifted. They began to realise that I believed in standing with my team, not above it. Conversations became easier, cooperation became natural, and gradually that cautious distance turned into genuine warmth.

Looking back now, I realise how fortunate I have been with the people around me.

Some of my favourite memories from Karwar are not official meetings or formal achievements, but the simple moments in between. Lunch breaks often turned into lively carrom matches, full of laughter and friendly rivalry. Sometimes the games were held even after office hours to compensate for the little time available during lunch hours.

Those small rituals created bonds that no office circular could ever establish.

Over time, colleagues and subordinates stopped being just that.

They became companions in this chapter of my life.

For the past six months, I have also had the unique distinction of being the only woman officer in the establishment. Naturally, I had wondered how that dynamic would unfold. But the environment turned out to be one of respect, cooperation and encouragement, which only strengthened my faith in the people I work with every day.

Looking back now, it almost feels strange to remember how reluctant I was to come here.

In fact, when my promotion came, my initial plan was simple, return to Mumbai. Go back to the city I knew, the pace I understood, the life that felt familiar.

But somewhere along the way, Karwar quietly changed something inside me.

The language that once sounded unfamiliar began to feel friendly. Faces that were once strangers became people I would genuinely miss. The small town that had once intimidated me slowly began to feel like home. And I even enrolled in an online Kannada speaking class and learnt its nuances which made me appreciate the language even more.

And somewhere between office files, rare swims in the sea, carrom matches filled with laughter, and conversations that stretched beyond work.… I fell in love here.

With what exactly, I cannot fully explain.

Maybe the quiet rhythm of this town.
Maybe the warmth of the people.
Maybe the life that unfolded here when I least expected it.

Or maybe with myself?

All I know is this.

The posting I once resisted coming to… has now become the place I find hardest to leave.

Because sometimes you arrive somewhere reluctantly, counting the days until you can return.

And then, without warning, you realise that in the most ordinary moments of that place… you left your heart behind.

Kulmohan Kaur

Kulmohan Kaur is a Gazetted Officer with Govt. of India. She is an NLP Master Practitioner from European Council of NLP, Life Coach Certification (ANLP, ECNLP). She has a post graduate degree in Psychology. She is an author, blogger, avid reader, motivational Speaker, relationship Guide and Life Coach.

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